Getting married was always part of our plan — we just didn’t expect to do it from separate countries.
When you’re in a cross-border relationship, especially with international logistics, everything gets more complicated. Paperwork, travel restrictions, planning — even picking a date can feel impossible.
We wanted to start our life together. But a traditional wedding just wasn’t realistic.
Then we found out we could get married online.
At first, we thought it was only symbolic. But after researching, we learned that states like Utah legally support fully virtual marriages — with a licensed officiant and official paperwork — and they’re even accepted in other countries.
We decided to go for it.
Here’s how it worked for us:
- We verified our identities and filled out a quick form.
- We booked our wedding time with an officiant who was licensed for online ceremonies.
- We invited our small circle to join via Zoom.
- And when the day came, we logged on, said our vows, and just like that — we were married.
I said “I do” from my apartment. My spouse-to-be said it from their military base.
It was unforgettable. It was easy. And it was ours.
The officiant guided us through everything. The ceremony was short but meaningful. And we received our certified marriage certificate immediately — no courthouse, no plane tickets, no headaches.
Since then, we’ve used our online marriage to handle immigration documents, and every agency has accepted it — no issues at all.
If you’re separated by borders, don’t wait. Online marriage is legal, and it’s a meaningful way to start your future — even secret wedding if you’re not in the same place.
We’re proof that love doesn’t need borders — and that what matters most is the vows.